PEDOPHILIA: our new name

Most people fail to realise that the government is the face of the country outside...at least majorly. Our government, in Nigeria, is majorly corrupt; but for once in a long while our senate impressed us when they stood their ground against the homosexual bill.
It was totally against the African culture and they did us proud, regardless of the fact that the British threatened to withdraw their aid.
But recently, this same heroes of the gay bill have gone back to their vomit with the PEDOPHILE BILL. They just gave men the right to take girls as low as 6yrs for wives.
Come to think of it, nobody would marry a 9yr old for his first wife, the senators that voted were mostly northerners. Men notorious for marrying 12 and 13 year olds.
They would probably marry her as a fourth or fifth, to soothe their lustful desires for children's flesh. Some may argue that it would reduce infidelity...would it? Even older women who have 5 or 6 wives ahead of them tend to fornicate.
ASUU is on strike, the economy is in a chaos and the only things the bastards can think about is sex with little children. Let us Nigerians fight against this bill, even though it is passed. Let us horde yur young daughters from the eyes of these pedophiles regardless of their financial standing. Let us fight for our traditions and beliefs. God bless Nigeria and punish all the enemies of progress...especially the law makers

Apologies

In the world today, it is a known fact that apologies make a lot of difference, the simple five letter word ‘SORRY’ is an incentive to stop or reduce fights. It stops wars, lack of it starts wars and yet some people with an ego as high as Mount Everest refuse to say sorry because they feel that they have the power to take on the person or the nation and win.

I was sitting down outside under a tree and an Ibo guy insulted my father, I thought at first that maybe his IQ didn’t get to that level as to know that insulting my father is wrong, but he decided to stand a false ground and claim that he had done nothing wrong.

A lady that claimed to be from Ondo state, sat down and argued with over ten people that were telling her that what she did was wrong, but she wouldn’t budge because she felt that it would be weak of her to admit that she was at fault. Is that a good or crazy mentality?

First then I began to wonder the kind of mentality that the average Nigerian has in his head, when a simple sorry can make everything okay, people decide to fight and claim right to what is not right.

How long can we continue to watch people behave like this? What most older people fail to understand is that the little kids of nowadays watch the behavioral patterns of our elders and emulate as little kids may look up to the parent as a role model. These children will imbibe the character and pass it on to the next generation.

Then who are we to blame for the lack of apologetic attitude of the average Nigerian? Our parents or we that have refused to change our attitude towards life.

The question that comes to my mind is how a little sorry affects your life? It doesn’t increase your size neither does it decrease you, it doesn’t make you smaller but it shows to the world your maturity level; because it takes a lot of gut for a proud man to say sorry.

Then if you say sorry and the person does not agree than it is left to him and God, because even when we offend God all we need is a simple genuine sorry and he forgives us, how much more mere men… Food for thought for egomaniacs

Porn...

The Nigerian society has been known to be very good imitators, we have been known to copy every thing they do, killing our culture to fit theirs. No problem anyway, we have now gone to copying the very thing that our culture and our religions speak against... PORNOGRAPHY;

We have seen the first Nigerian first soft porn movie ‘Dirty Secrets’. We have decided to copy the Ghanaians and the Whites who have no problems removing their clothes in front of a camera. The average African religion frowns about sex before marriage but all that is going the drain as people have slogans like ‘VIRGINITY IS NOT DIGNITY BUT LACK OF OPPORTUNITY’

Christianity frowns on it; Islam does the same even the fetish religions do. The gods of our lands, in the times of old, punished people for things like this…

Back to the Nigerian film industry; we have failed to copy all the good things that are scientifically. We have failed to copy special effects, our guns still move before the sound, people shoot outside the building …people inside will die and the windows which are fully put up are still intact. We fail to spend money and then we complain of piracy…so we decided to copy porn and we are doing a good job at that...
the Nigerian "NOLLYWOOD" God bless the crappy name, have movies like red hot, bold five babes, to mention but a few.


The youths are seeing this as a source of inspiration

Young university girls now have sex videos on the internet (hard core porn) and they even put their names and the schools they attend there?

What do people derive from watching porn?

It is a very old topic but it has become disturbing of recent. The youths have seen porn as something that they can look up to when they are feeling sexually aroused

So what the hell do people derive from watching porn

Some say its sex education…for the married couples...lol

A lot of marriages have crashed because ladies that have watched porn expect to see their husbands with 9 inch long phalluses and expects them to go all oral on them
Or…expects their husbands to have the speed and stamina, not to talk of the finesse in which the porn stars perform the different sex positions, of a horse, they expect to scream and shout like the ladies in the movies..They usually end up getting disappointed and then they plow their trade elsewhere

Men, on the other hand, watch these movies and while some feel inferior to the instruments of service God gave them, others feel that they can make their women scream like in the videos and usually end up in pre mature ejaculation.

What good has porn to offer us… nothing

Our fore fathers did not have to watch porn to know how to sleep with their wives, it is inborn. Pornography is a disease and it is affecting the whole world right now.

Check yourself if porn has in anyway helped or destroyed you

Letter to Nigerian Parents

This calls for a very sober reflection!
LETTER TO NIGERIAN PARENTSHELLOI HAVE NO IDEA WHO WROTE THIS BUT IT MAKES INTERESTING READING & FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Friends, Let me add the benefit of my time as a student and then resident in the UK - and I live in Lagos now. The first thing that I discovered about UK-born, white, English
undergraduates was that all of them did holiday or weekend job to support themselves - including the children of millionaires amongst them. It is the norm over there - regardless how wealthy their parents are. And I soon discovered that virtually all other foreign students did the same - the exception being those of us status-conscious Nigerians.I also watched Richard Branson (owner of Virgin Airline)speaking on the Biography Channel and, to my amazement, he said that his young children travel in the economy class -even when the parents (he and his wife) are in upper class. Richard Branson is a billionaire in Pound Sterling. A quick survey would show you that only children from Nigeria fly business or upper class to commence their studies in the UK . No other foreign students do this. There is no aircraft attached to the office of the prime minister in the UK - he travels on BA. And the same goes for the Royals. The Queen does not have an aircraft for
her exclusive use. These practices simply become the culture which the next generation carries forward. Have you seen the car that Kate Middleton(the wife of Prince William) drives? VW Golf or something close to it. But there's one core difference them and us(generally speaking). They (even the billionaires among them) work for their money, we steal ours! If we want our children to bring about the desired change we have been praying for on behalf of our dear country, then please, please let's begin now and teach them to work hard so they can stand alone and most importantly be content, and not having to "steal", which seem to be the norm these days."30 is the new 18", which seem to be the new age for testing out the world in Nigeria now. That seems to be an unspoken but widely accepted mindset among the last 2 generations of parents in Nigeria . At age 18 years, a typical young adult in the UK leaves the clutches of his/her parents for the University,
chances are, that's the last time those parents will ever play "landlord" to their son or daughter except of course the occasional home visits during the academic year.At 21 years and above or below, the now fully grown and independent minded adult graduates from University, searches for employment, gets a job and shares a flat with other young people on a journey into becoming fully fledged adults.I can hear the echo of parents saying, well, that is because the UK economy is thriving, safe, well structured and jobs are everywhere? I beg to differ and I ask that you kindly hear me out. I am UK trained Recruitment Consultant and I have been practicing for the past 10 years in Nigeria . I have a broad range of experience from recruiting graduates to executive director level of large corporations. In addition, I talk from the point of view of someone with relatively privileged upbringing. Driven to school every day, had my clothes washed for me, was barred
from taking any part-time job during my A-levels so that I could concentrate on studying for my exams?! BUT, I got the opportunity to live apart from my parents from age 18 and the only time I came back home to stay was for 3 months before I got married!Am I saying that every parent should wash their hands off their children at age 18? No, not at all, of course, I enjoyed the savings that I made from living on and off at my parent's house in London - indeed that is the primary reason for my being able to buy myself a 3 bedroom flat in London at age 25 with absolutely no direct financial help from my parents!For me, pocket money stopped at age 22, not that it was ever enough for my lifestyle to compete with Paris Hilton's or Victoria Beckham's. Meanwhile today, we have Nigerian children who have never worked for 5 minutes in their lives insisting on flying "only" first or business class, carrying the latest Louis Vuitton ensemble, Victoria 's Secret
underwear and wearing Jimmy Choo's, fully paid for by their "loving" parents.I often get calls from anxious parents, my son graduated 2 years ago and is still looking for a job, can you please assist! Oh really! So where exactly is this "child" is my usual question. Why are you the one making this call dad/mum?I am yet to get a satisfactory answer, but between you and me, chances are that big boy is cruising around Lagos with a babe dressed to the nines, in his dad's spanking new SUV with enough "pocket money" to put your salary to shame. It is not at all strange to have a 28 year old who has NEVER worked for a day in his or her life in Nigeria but "earns" a six figure "salary" from parents for doing absolutely nothing. I see them in my office once in a while, 26 years old with absolutely no skills to sell, apart from a shiny CV, written by his dad's secretary in the office. Of course, he has a driver at his beck and call and he is driven to the job
interview. We have a fairly decent conversation and we get to the inevitable question - so, what salary are you looking to earn? Answer comes straight out - N250,000.00. I ask if that is per month or per annum.Of course it is per month. Oh, why do you think you should be earning that much on your first job? Well, because my current pocket money is N200,000.00 and I feel that an employer should be able to pay me more than my parents. I try very hard to compose myself, over parenting is in my opinion the greatest evil handicapping the Nigerian youth. It is at the root of our national malaise. We have a youth population of tens of millions of who are being "breastfed and diapered" well into their 30s. Even though the examples I have given above are rom parents of considerable affluence, similar patterns can be observed from Abeokuta to Adamawa! Wake up mum! Wake up dad! You are practically loving your children to death! No wonder corruption continues to
thrive. We have a society of young people who have been brought up to expect something for nothing, as if it were a birth right.I want to encourage you to send your young men and women (anyone over 20 can hardly be called a child!) out into the world, maybe even consider reducing or stopping the pocket money to encourage them to think, explore and strive. Let them know that it is possible for them to succeed without your "help".Take a moment to think back to your own time as a young man/woman, what if someone had kept spoon feeding you, would you be where you are today? No tree grows well under another tree, children that are not exposed to challenges, don't cook well. That is why you see adults complaining, "my parents didn't buy clothes for me this christmas", ask him/her how old-30+. Because of the challenges we faced in our youth, we are where and what we are today, this syndrome-my children will not suffer what I suffered is destroying our
tomorrow. Deliberately reduce their allowance or mum-don't cook on Saturday till late afternoon or evening-do as occasion deserve.I learnt the children of a former Nigerian head of state with all the stolen (billions) monies in their custody, still go about with security escort as wrecks. They are on drugs, several times because of the drug, they collapse in public places. The escort will quickly pack them and off they go, what a life. No one wants to marry them. Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young.- Henry Ford. Hard work does not kill, everything in Nigeria is going down, including family settings. It is time to cook our children, preparing them for tomorrow. We are approaching the season in Nigeria where only the RUGGED, will survive. How will your ward fare? If the present generation of Nigerian pilots retire, will you fly a plane
flown by a young Nigerian pilot, If trained in Nigeria ? People now have first class, who cannot spell GRADUATE or read an article without bomb blast! Which Way Nigeria !, Which Way Nigerians!! Is this how we will ALL sit and watch this country SINK?Pls forward to as many Nigerian parents as you know.

RAPE...

I was reading a newspaper once, and I read a story about five boys who raped a girl, after the case got to the police, the DPO of that region was interviewed by reporters and he was quoted saying that the after all their investigation they found out that the girl consented to rape…
Now I thought to myself, how can it be rape if she actually consented to it? It’s funny, when I checked the meaning of the two words in the dictionary; they were two totally contrasting words.
But then I wonder what goes into the minds of the guys that rape girls, especially the ones that gang up to rape. Is it rejection from the victims after he tried to woo her or is it a psychological defect in the brain, or is he just randy or demon infested, I can only but wonder…
Sometimes, not that I am taking the blame off the guys who make God regret that he gave man a penis, I look at the women that are raped…the innocent ones that are virgins pain me, because not only may the victim suffer a trauma for the rest of her life, she is bound to develop a hatred for men and for sex. She may even go and become a lesbian; some even go as far as committing murder.
But to the women, who wear tight and revealing clothes, show of their assets in the name of being comfortable in it and have probably had sex with three to six men, I wonder why they fight off their assailants, they would get beat, their clothes would get torn, their faces dis-figured, their bodies brutalized and the men would still have their way…
I know you may be thinking, what the hell is he trying to say, what I am saying is what you are thinking, why doesn’t she just lay back and enjoy the exercise. It’s not that she is new to it; she has had a lot of it in the past and is sure to have more in the future.
So what can I say causes rape, not taking the blame off the men, I personally blame the trends in the society today, it is difficult in this our time not to lust when a young woman exposes her legs that are long and shapely and spotless and fit to a perfectly shaped backside and then shows off her boobs for the world to see in the name of fashion, the television we watch now is filled with sex, to the extent that you need sexy women for the simplest of adverts, women in tight fitting mini gown advertising soft drinks.
Soft porn is now the order of the day in our film industry, and even hard core porn is not far away on the internet, that has been made readily available to the youths of today.
So how would a by who has been watching porn, dreaming of sex for a long time not rape a lady if given the chance? I am not saying that he shouldn’t be put to jail of caught, what I am saying is that the blame should not be put on the guy but also on the girl that made him extra ordinarily horny in the first place.
Now in as much as I cannot highlight all the causes of rape, I just want to say something. It is good home training that can save our youths from rape. So the parents should endeavor to teach their children how to dress decently and how to relate well with people and they should try not to shy away from the topic of sex education.
To all parents out their, the future of the country is in your hands… what you gonna do about it?

HOMOSEXUALITY…

Some times I wonder, how some people either men or women look at the opposite sex and feel irritated. I wonder how a man can look at another man and feel sexually aroused.

I am into computer engineering and I know that when you write a program, you expect it to play out as expected and if it doesn’t play out that way then there is a problem, either the program was written badly or there was a virus in it.

So I think that when God wrote the programming for human beings, I do not think He intended men to sleep with men and women to sleep women. That is why in the beginning it was ADAM and EVE not ADAM and ST’EVE’ or M’ADAM and EVE.

I think it is sheer wickedness when a woman sleeps with another woman and her excuse is that men are wicked and a man…well I do not know any excuse that a man can have...because as a man, I understand how sensuously exciting a woman’s body can be… and I guess that the same can be said about women concerning men’s bodies.

These homosexuals later start to look for kids to adopt later, if those kid’s parents were homosexuals would they see kids to adopt. That is another thing that baffles me is why would they need kids when they know that the process is impossible for them?

Laws of attraction states that ‘like poles repel, unlike poles attract’, so how come they are different. Its good to be different if the difference you make is positive, but what you do that you cannot readily tell your family or friends for fear of rejection then why do it.

I personally think that the punishment of 14 years imprisonment is not good, because there are a lot of fags in the prisons, either they should be locked in solitary confinement in a psychiatric hospital for 14 years while they have their heads examined.

Finally, though you may think I am prejudiced against homosexuals, I am actually, I want to ask all homos reading this post…if your father was a homo and your mother a lesbian would you be alive today?

MONEY AND HELL: the connection

People view money as a necessary element in one’s life. We all need money for us to survive and get all the basic necessities of life.

But who invented money and why he / she did (because it may have been a woman that influenced her husband cause then women voices were irrelevant) think that there was a great need for a medium of exchange.

I personally think that it was greed that led to the invention of money.  My research led me to believe that trade by barter was what was in vogue before money came around, now why I said greed is because, consider my theory…

The man that plants yam and has to carry large lads to the market to exchange goods with a man that sells walnuts, so the yam seller would feel cheated despite all the hard work he has done, he now needs walnuts and he has to go to the walnut man’s farm with large tubers for small pieces of walnut.

So let’s assume my theory is right or wrong, that doesn’t matter, because a musician once said…”too much money ain’t enough money” the rich never get enough money and the poor never get enough either, so there is the great rush for the money.

Someone was said ‘money isn’t everything’ another answered by saying ‘make some first before you start saying crap’. I noticed something, a lot of people are not content with what they have physically and forget the spiritual, while some don’t have enough physically they turn to the spiritual to look for blessings. Here they are exploited too by some spiritualists who are in the business looking for money, and are ready to swindle people who will believe their lies.

The politicians kill themselves for the power and the money, because when you have money you have power. Some people would kill just for enough money to eat, girls prostitute for money, people lie for money, and people cheat for money. Most of the crimes in the world today can be linked with money. Sin is the ultimate route to hell.

The love of money is the root of evil I believe that ‘lack of contentment is the root of all evil’. We humans not only have to be content but we have to be able to love each other enough to share what we have.

The question to ask is what happens to all the money when we are in the grave?